Ron,
I went through something very similiar 5 years ago. Suffice it to say, I know what you are going thru, all the grief and aggravation. I do feel for you and your family.
But I do have faith that all will eventually turn out well for you as it did for me. It may take a while to blot this period from your memory, but you will. Just remember, and I am speaking from experience, It’s only money!
If you want to talk, sometimes it helps, email me.

Robert